December 20, 2004
1) There's nothing like having a 300-strong choir sing the Messiah at you in Royal Albert Hall, and it gets even better when you are able to make up your own lyrics to it.
2) Just when you think you have had enough depression, life hands you more.
3) Sometimes you don't need a little black dress, you need a long slinky red one.
When I was 6 years old I learned that Santa Claus didn't exist. And I didn't learn it from catching my family out (although I really should have been more clever and understood why it was that one room of the house was off-limits just before Christmas. Jesus, Helen. Put some backbone into that thinking of yours.)
Oh no. I learnt it from my best friend and her mother.
We were in the car, my best friend and I in the backseat. My best friend's name was, actually, the same name as mine, and we had nearly the exact same last name (to avoid mass confusion, let's call her Helen Squared). She too was a military child, although I was an Air Force officer's child and she was an Army enlisted man's daughter. There was a real class distinction there. One group did not associate with the other group. It was some kind of unwritten law, punishable by a lifetime in olive green fatigues if you broke the law. We both lived in McChord AFB in Washington, she and her family living just down the road from me.
Helen Squared had lived for a few years in North Carolina and had a thick maple syrup put-on accent. Her mother, Babe, was also from North Carolina and had an even thicker accent. I thought they sounded exotic, like creatures you encounter at a zoo.
Helen Squared was everything I was not. She was loud, brash and blond. Her favorite show was the Dukes of Hazzard and she wore cowboy boots and a red cowboy hat, like the one Gertie had in E.T.. Her mom let her have those plastic high heels all little girls want (although mine never would, so I nicked Helen Squared's and got in trouble for it. I suppose that's why I love high heels so much today, and also why I have never again committed petty larceny.) And even more so, her hair feathered. For real. This being 1980, it was the thing to have feathered blond Farrah Fawcett hair. Her hair did it. My hair, too thick to have any shape other than straight down my back, didn't.
You just had to bow down to those with feathered hair. It was Darwinism at its best.
Helen Squared had a boyfriend named Justin whom she would allow to chase her around the playground. It occured twice a day at recess, a little blond Southerner interrupting games of dodgeball (now there's a new version of masochism for you) and tetherball as she came screaming though the games, glancing heavily behind her shoulder. He never caught her, which is a good thing, as I imagine she hadn't really thought the whole thing through and hadn't figured out what she would do if he did finally catch her.
Kind of like modern women still think about today.
I never really understod what Helen Squared saw in me. I was dark to her light, in everything from hair color to attitude. I didn't have a cowboy hat and I didn't want one. She had a mental younger brother named Zed whom I thought was a suitable candidate for medical experiments. She had masses of friends, and I never really did. She was sunshine to my gloomy rain. But she liked me, she was the first person I played doctor with, and we were friends for years. She was my best friend, my single source of aggravation and envy, and my competition.
She's also part of the duo that killed Santa Claus.
I'm not sure where we were going that day. All I can remember is Babe was driving and Helen Squared and I were in the back seat. Helen Squared and I were singing along to the radio as we always did-Olivia Newton-John's Xanadu and Pat Benatar's Hit Me With Your Best Shot (the 80's were a very good time to be an obnoxious kid that sang off-key). It was a week away from Christmas, and we were discussing presents.
"I need the Barbie Dream House." Helen Squared said with authority.
"Me too." I piped up. A shimmering pink plastic wonder, the A-frame Barbie Dream House, a town house with it's kitsch yellow floors, white plastic walls and flowerboxes full of tatty purple and white fake flowers was the kind of thing that kept us up at night with longing. A marvel of Mattel magic, it was only the best for Barbie and her androgynous Ken (we know. We checked.) I already had the hot tub that burped bubbles when you pressed on the rubber air button and foamed all over the place. This would be the pinnacle. This was reaching and achieving Barbie glory.
It was the place where Barbie's white plastic high heeled shoes that fell off when she walked were meant to be. It was the place where we could have her hard pink plastic butterfly-covered bed and park her yellow remote controlled (with a wire) Corvette. It was where her striped 70's couch and pink vanity set should go, the vanity set complete not with a mirror, but with a strip of foil. It was the place we could do surgery-Barbies always had bubbles in their legs (which I later learned was due to the imperfection of the plastic molding process) but which Helen Squared and I believed were tumors, so we would always do dramatic emergency surgery on Barbie's legs, hoping she would pull through, with Ken pacing the carpet to and fro in his stiff jointed way worried about her survival.
I didn't know this then, but that architectural marvel would be under the Christmas tree for me that year and would rack up thousands of hours of use before I outgrew it and it got boxed up and thrown away, a broken wonder that captured my imagination and turned me into the skilled bubble-plastic leg surgeon that I am today.
"I want a pony, too." Helen Squared announced. I scoffed at her folly. Just because she had the cowboy hat didn't mean she knew how to ride. Bitch.
"I asked Santa for a bike." I say, smiling.
We stop at a stoplight. Babe and Helen Squared look at me, Babe's eyes blue in the rearview mirror.
"You do know there's no such thing as Santa." Babe says.
I feel my heart lurch. What is this? An adult decrying the existence of the good guy? A grown-up telling me not to believe in something they always advocated? What was going on? Was I in another dimension?
"There's no such thing as Santa." Helen Squared said patronizingly. "It's just our parents."
They were looking at me, expectantly. Helen Squared's hair was feathered perfectly that day. Perfectly. You could not argue with Aqua Net that good.
"You did know that there's no such thing as Santa Claus, right Helen?" Babe asked again. I feel under intense pressure. On the one hand, Santa is my main man. On the other, why would they lie, why would they take Santa from me?
And all at once, under the intense scrutiny of the feathered hair, I knew what I had to answer.
"Sure." I say, killing Santa Claus with one syllable. "I know he's not real." I didn't know what to do. I feel like the Mafia-someone is alive and breathing, only I hold my hand up and sniff: "You're dead to this family now, Clausy. You are not a part of this family any longer." This would bring into play serious questions about the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy, issues I wasn't emotionally equipped to address that day, shattered as I was over the loss of Santa.
Helen Squared tosses her feathered hair back over her shoulder. The light changes and we move forward, and if I swivel my head around I can see out the back window a sadly jolly guy in red, waving goodbye in the middle of the street as I drive away and leave him behind me forever.
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