November 25, 2004
This morning I dragged my ass out of bed, shrugging off the sleeping tablet that I needed to fall asleep and shaking off my Sims-influenced dreams, and get ready for work in the dark of the autumn world. Angus is away in Germany on a business trip (I have missed him and hope to shag his brains out later), and so the house is silent, echoing only my footsteps. I get ready, dressed in a simple pair of jeans and a Gap long-sleeve T, and I take the train into the city.
No one here seems to know it's Thanksgiving.
Then again, why would they?
I had a conference call with some vendors in the U.S. last night. We had a number of outstanding issues so I told them we'd reconvene on Thursday. We were all exhausted, this project is difficult and getting to the nerve endings under our skin. I was looking forward to a hot bath, some Mexican breakfast burritos, and some sleep.
"We can't do the call tomorrow, Helen." one of the guys on the call said.
"We have got to resolve this issue." I urge strongly, desperate to make progress on this project.
"But tomorrow is a holiday. It's Thanksgiving over here in the states." he pleads. "But we can do a dial-in call if it's important to you."
With a shock, I realize I had forgotten that temporarily. "Oh, man. No, I'm very sorry. You're right. This can wait until Monday. I'm very sorry, I can't believe I'd forgotten."
"You knew it's Thanksgiving over here?" comes a surprised voice.
"Oh yes." I say, shifting the gears of the car and gliding home from the train station. "I'm celebrating mine on Friday with some friends."
"You're American?" asks the guy incredulously.
And just like that, I wonder if I have lost my way. The guy I was talking to isn't even American, he's a Scotsman that moved over there for work. He's more at home there than I am, perhaps. It's as though I have lost my American-ism. They're going to rip up my passport. It's only a matter of time before I cave and insert "u" into my words, replace the s with z.
Nah. I'm lying about that one. I'll never change my spelling.
I want to tell him that I know about Thanksgiving. I know it's a day to spend with family and friends. I know about the lunchtime football games. The morning Macy's Day parade while eating cinnamon rolls. The smell of roasting turkey wafting around the stairs of the house. The laughter and clink of the good china being set on the table. The feeling that you're so full you can't eat another bite, even as you butter up another flaky biscuit.
Since moving, I got myself a copy of Home For the Holidays. I watch that movie every Thanksgiving, cuddled on the couch, and eating comfort food, wishing I could be as low-key as Holly Hunter. I have only had one Thanksgiving on the Thursday it should be on since moving (and it was a great one) so my Thursday Thanksgiving evenings are often spent being homesick.
That's right. Thanksgiving makes me homesick. It has every year so far, I can't imagine this year will be different.
Today I am spending my day with two co-workers going through 12 contractual documents line by line. My inbox is backed up so badly that I need climbing rope to get in and out of it. Our house needs some final touches before people come tomorrow. And Saturday we go to Sweden.
There are four more days until my girls are home.
A few years ago I started a tradition based on a friend of mine. She was American in Sweden too, and she came to my Thanksgiving dinner. She stood up during dinner and said that every year her family went around the table and named things they were thankful for. It was cheesy, emotional, and perfect.
I've done it every year since.
I'm not sure what I will say tomorrow, but I do know that the yearly check of what we're thankful for needs to happen. Here are some of mine:
I am thankful I got a new job.
I am thankful I have my Angus.
I am thankful I get my girls on Monday.
I am thankful I have a great man who is able to trim my minge.
I am thankful I found a place to call home.
I am thankful I learnt about Lush.
I am thankful I have been able to touch happy, and know the shape and feel of it on the ridges of my fingertips.
I am thankful I am nearly done with this contractual meeting.
I am thankful I have been blogging. I think it has saved and helped me.
Happy Thanksgiving. Enjoy the Macy's Day parade for me.
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