October 06, 2006
Tonight Melissa and Jeff arrive for the weekend. We haven't seen them in a while (since Wales, since pregnancy) and it will be nice to have the house full of the rambunctious noise that accompanies children. Gorby, in particular, will be blissed out-these kids have a place in his heart and when they leave, he gets a bit depressed. It's always nice seeing them, especially for Angus-he misses them terribly. He calls them "My babies", which sometimes I hurt from because my own babies can't seem to make it outside of my uterus.
Melissa and I have been getting along very, very well. She's getting to be a moody teenager, but she has up moments that are good fun. When she was last here we spent lots of time talking about films, movie stars, makeup, and clothes when she was last here. It's all not heavy stuff, but it doesn't have to be. She borrows my makeup and nail polish. She looks through my clothes. None of this I mind. When she was last here if she noticed me heaving in the bathroom often, she didn't comment on it (and the minds of children are wonderous things, and maybe it didn't even warrant a thought.)
So a week or two ago on a warm sunny Sunday Angus popped his head into the study, looking perplexed.
"Melissa's on the phone," he said, holding the handset like the witness to a crime. "And...she wants to talk to you," he said, slightly dazed.
I felt my eyebrows raise. This was not in the script, this is not how things are done. "She wants to talk to me?" I ask stupidly. "Why?" I ask, upping the stupid notch even further.
He shrugs in the "eyeano" manner.
I take the handset like it's a ticking object. "Hello?"
"Hi Helen," comes Melissa's voice, which has a strong English accent to it.
"What's up, man?" I ask.
"Nothing much. I'm watching TV with International Erin," she replies. Melissa goes to an English-speaking school in Sweden. Erin is her closest friend who, she proudly pointed out, spelt her name the international way and not the Swedish way. Nickname ensued, hence Erin is now International Erin. International Erin and Melissa will even be coming to visit us for a long weekend in February, where International Erin will flex her English muscle.
"Good. Anything good on?" I reply. I look at my feet and wonder when the other shoe is coming down.
"Not really," Melissa replies, and goes on to describe the film.
We then talk about Converse, as when we go to the States I'd planned to buy a pair for myself, and she wants a pair, too, only not as barnsligt (Swedish for "childish") as mine. Our conversations tend to be peppered with English and Swedish. Melissa thinks my toys and-in particular-my choices in Target socks are, in her opinion, "pinsam" (which means "embarrassing" in Swedish).
Pinsam is uttered from her 14 year-old lips a lot.
It's hard being a teen.
We talk further about jackets-I have a coat she nicks every time she comes here in cold weather. She states she wants a coat just like that for Christmas. And jeans. And shoes. And maybe we should go shopping the next time she's here?
I wonder what's happening here.
I don't tell her that Angus will take her shopping while Jeff and I go to the films-Jeff is the only one that wants to see Pixar and animated movies with me (we saw Over the Hedge together, screaming with laughter like idiots. It became, in his words, "The best movie I ever saw." I love that.)
So then I tell Melissa to go watch her movie.
"No wait, Helen!" she says quickly. "I wanted to tell you something!"
"Go on, babe," I reply.
"Um. OK. I....I met this boy."
Holy shit.
Melissa wants to talk to me about a boy.
Oh my fucking god.
I felt so honored you'd think I'd won the Nobel prize or something.
"Cool," I say calmly. "What's he like?"
"He's an American!" she says excitedly.
"Really?" I ask, smiling.
"Yeah, and guess where he's from!" she says happily.
"Lemme guess....he's from Texas?" I say.
"Yes! He's from Fort Worth!"
"Well. Now quality people are from Dallas, but we'll accept Fort Worth, too."
"Oh, Helll-ennnnnnnn,," she replies, with that "rolling the eyes" feeling injected into the words.
"What's he like? Is he cute?" I ask.
"Mm-hmmm," she affirms. "Tall."
"Good, tall is good. We like tall boys."
And so it goes. She tells me about him. She laughs and talks about details until International Erin calls her back to the TV, at which point Melissa gives me the kid version of saying goodbye, known as "IgottagobutI'lltellyoumorelaterokbye."
I hang up, and grin.
I tell Angus about the conversation and swear him to secrecy. Melissa hadn't told him about the boy. Turns out, Melissa hasn't told anyone about the boy.
Except me.
She told me.
Melissa wanted to speak to me because she wanted to tell me about a boy. Melissa wanted to speak to me because she thought I would be one person she could talk about it too. Mostly? Melissa wanted to speak to me.
I can't even begin to describe how happy that phone call made me.
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