September 20, 2007
We went to IKEA yesterday, which is something of a trip for my dad and stepmom. They've been to the IKEA in Seattle, but only for the meatball lunch. This time, they helped us pick out blinds for the study and nursery and Angus and I went ahead and bought another crib for the Lemonheads, which will be needed down the line. I'm not sure IKEA was really their thing, but they were good sports.
It was the Asian grocery store where fun was had.
We were glad to have them with us. We've been dying to know what the hell half of the things in the aisles are, as while Angus and I are adventurous with foods, we have limits (one of them being "pig uterus", which they do indeed sell there.) My dad and stepmom are Japanese, and they eat, speak, read, write it as well. They were both born in Japan and emigrated to the U.S. as children, and they speak Japanese with their mothers as well as spend a lot of time in Japan still. So we get out of the car and Angus and I turn to my family.
"OK now," I say. Angus and I are the only white people at the shop. "Don't embarrass us in there, ok? Try to blend."
They laugh.
We have a great time in the shop, which isn't easy to say when you see a display of pig uterus. They had a batch of fresh crabs come in, and Angus, Dad and I look longingly at them. Angus and I love seafood, but there is no way, ever, that we can drop a live crab into a pot of boiling water. We appeal to my stepmom, who grins, shrugs, and says she has no problem cooking up the little guys - provided we don't give them a name before we boil them, because then she gets squicked out.
A deal is struck. Two unnammed crabs come home with us for dinner.
And the four of us cook up a massive Asian meal. She makes Vietnamese summer rolls, and (after the initial moment where the crab is dropped into the pot, which my stepmom handles while the rest of us head out of the kitchen for the moment of killing) Angus and Dad boil up the crabs. We snack on edamame which we peel open with our teeth. My stepmother brings a helping of pan-friend bok choi. I tell her we should put some in a bag, and she can knock on my neighbor's door and ask them if they ordered Chinese food.
The Asian jokes don't stop. It's all par for the course - the British jokes and "very white child" jokes don't stop, either. It's all good-natured and no one takes offense. Truthfully I've always wanted to look Asian, but instead drew the "whitest of white" gene straw.
Angus asks why I didn't learn Japanese. I tell him that I do know Japanese. And I do - I can say hello and goodbye and I can count to four. I don't know where five went, maybe five is irrelevant, maybe I never needed five, but I can do 1 - 4.
I'm an embarrassment to my people.
For some reason, my dad adds a bowl of Indian tikka massala sauce and some nan breads to the table, so our meal is one serious cultural explosion. It was one of the best meals I've eaten in a long time, and we leave the table sated.
Their visit is going well so far. I love having them here. We haven't done much besides relax and chat a lot, and they're coming to the doctor with me this morning (Angus has a meeting he can't miss). Tonight Dad and Angus are off to London for the birthday present I bought Dad, as his birthday was last week - I bought the two of them an evening wine tasting course, where they get to have wine and whiskey tasting and take it easy. The kids arrive tomorrow night, which isn't without its stresses. I'm glad they're happy to relax here - I can't imagine how boring it must be to come to London and then spend time in the country, but last night was one of those "you will have 3 hours max" nights thanks to contractions and breathing problems, so relaxing is helping me immeasurably.
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