September 12, 2007
I've had a run of dealing with Stupid People this week. Yes, I meant that in caps. Stupid People are a breed below "people who are just not with it today". Stupid People are Stupid to the point of banging your head against the wall, considering crimes against humanity, or you wanting to take a DNA sample of their blood in order to isolate what can only be described as the Stupid Gene (you'll know it when you see it, it's the one at the elevator jabbing the call button repeatedly in their irritation and annoyance with how an important person like themselves has to wait, even when the light is already lit and you know the elevator is on its way down and pushing the button more does not put it into warp drive, people).
I'll give you a few examples.
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Stupid People #1 - PayPal.
That's right.
PayPal = Stupid People.
PayPal winds me up anyway. They're not an intuitive service to use, they're seriously money hungry, and should something go wrong - and with PayPal things often go wrong - then too bad, sucker! See you on the other side of my Mai Tai!
I recently got done with a transaction. I've been using PayPal for a few years now, I guess it was about time to get screwed, but screwed I got, in that "grab your ankles and I'm not even lubing up" kind of way. I was going to buy some Band-Aids for Statia's birthday, only the shop was out of them. So I ordered them online from an online toy shop. Simple, right? I PayPal'ed them my money.
Then nothing.
Nothing, nothing, nothing.
The boat sailed for Statia's birthday and no Band-Aids showed (these were quality first aid goods too, I tell you). After many emails to the seller went unanswered, I then went through PayPal's resolution centre. Nada. I then - 8 weeks later - raised a claim on PayPal. I'd since bought more Band-Aids as my local shop stocked them again, but I wanted my money back. It wasn't a huge sum of money, I can't reveal it because it was for a present for someone, but yes goddammit, it was the principle of the matter.
PayPal wrote me back - I won the judgement. Congrats. Yeah, me.
But, um, oh yeah - they can't get my money back.
Case closed, see ya' at the bar, sucker!
Oh, so my victory is one of those moral victories then, huh? The kind where I'm supposed to pull the lapel of my wool library jacket closer to my necktie and feel good about oneself, that the tides of justice are still ebbing and flowing, right? I should stand tall in a crowd and shout "I have truth, justice, and the support of an online consumer buyer protection agency on my side!" then?
I was furious. And I'm the type of girl that if you fuck with me on some things, I will make you pay to whatever extent I can. On Flickr I'm religious about checking to see who's linking to me and what their profile is - more than once I've been linked to by someone into seriously inappropriate porn (involving children, forced sex acts on women, etc.) or by someone who I feel crosses a line by only collecting pics of naked pregnant women or of candid shots up unsuspecting womens' skirts. I go mental when that happens, and as I'm clear about in my profile, I won't just block someone like that, I'll report them, too.
I decided to take action.
I filed another claim in PayPal, this time against PayPal.
I reported PayPal to the trading standards agency for not being clearer about their Buyer Protection policy (it won't work, but it's fun to think of PayPal having to deal with paperwork.)
I reported the toy desiger to the trading standards agency, for taking my money and running. Then I found out they have a shop in Ebay, so I reported them to Ebay, too. As soon a I can get an address out of them, I'm taking them to small claims court (because it's mostly an online process these days and doesn't tie up resources doing big things, like going after people for pit bull fighting or those dodging their taxes).
I will get a result on this one, though. My "moral victory" is not enough.
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Stupid People #2 - Some locals, or as I like to think of it, "You want me to prove I speak English but what are you doing about this lot?"
Because of our ebay cleanout and a few care packages I've sent out recently, as well as my visa application stuff (clarification materials went out last Friday, fingers crossed!), I've been spending a lot of time at the local post office (which, seeing as we had a number of auctions finish last night, is where I'll be visiting again today).
Our local post office is a village post office, and as such it has village hours. Generally speaking, it's open from about 11:01 am - 1:02 pm, with an hour's break for lunch in the middle. It's run by a woman who's about 100, and even if she knows you she still demands to see some ID before handing over a package. I prefer to go to a post office in the nearest town, which is about a 5 minute drive.
This town, though, is a bit of a dump. Some parts of it are nice, while other parts are clearly the action end of a Friday night drink up, complete with chicken vindaloo and vomit-a-thon at the end. The post office lies in the crappy area. It's not unsafe or anything like that, it's just full of 1960's row houses that scream of people who like to decorate in a style that should have left when Maggie Thatcher did.
I was waiting in line at the post office on Saturday. In front of me were two women and two kids under the age of 4. The women were both dressed in midriff baring size 8 tube tops (the tags were hanging out the back of the tops) and...um...both women shouldn't have been wearing those. I know I shouldn't be talking, I am currently the size of the house dropped on the Wicked Witch of the West, but just because you can fit into something doesn't mean you should.
Anyway, one of the kids was running up and down the magazine aisle, ripping the covers off of the magazines. The people in line behind me and I just stared, aghast. The mother, who was holding the other child on her shoulder, simply shouted "You rip them covers off, and I ain't paying for them!"
I love it when people use good grammar.
The kid stared at his mother, shrugged, and then instead of his vandalism spree he started ripping all of the freebies off the magazines and stuffing them into his pockets. She nodded, satisfied that at least he wasn't doing anything criminal or anything like that, he wasn't ripping up magazines, he was just into petty thievery.
Right about now you're probably thinking "Why didn't Helen say anything to these women?" The reason Helen didn't say anything is simple: They would have kicked my ass up and down the aisle of that shop. I kid you not, they had "I dare you to challenge me" written all over them, and since Britain in general seems easier about the assault than America does. I've seen more people hit each other here than I ever did, ever, in America. I think the reason for this is simple - in America you get sued. Here, you really don't. Witness an altercation in some areas here and it's possible you'll see some action. While in general it's a very, very laid back culture in terms of confrontation, there are those who don't play by the rules. I've seen one guy go after Angus and cuff him one, for instance. Please don't for a minute think that where we live is dangerous or violent-the lack of guns makes things pretty safe, and the problems are pretty much centered with teens and gangs in the bigger poorer areas of cities. But it happens. These women had "I will follow you and smack you down, bitch" written all over them, and while that kind of thing usually doesn't phase me, it does tend to sway my actions when I'm 8 months pregnant.
So, like the others in the line, we simply stared.
The little girl at one point dropped her pacifier out of her mouth on to the floor, and it rolled to the feet of the other woman in their party. The other woman looked at it. She looked at me. Even though the pacifier was closer to her than to me, she challenged me with her eyes, with a "Well? Ain't you going to pick it up?" look.
And on this one, the Stupid People would not win. Not only would I not bend over and pick up the pacifier, but considering the position of one of the twins it's pretty impossible for me to bend over, anyway. I stared her back down.
The woman called the thuggish boy over to come pick up the pacifier and hand it to her. He did. The woman then took the pacifier and - I kid you not - slammed it into the mouth of the little girl.
"Don't drop it again, you fucking bitch!" she snarled, and - I couldn't believe it - reached out a hand and slapped the kid.
There was an audible gasp in the line behind me as we witnessed this. We couldn't believe it. What kind of future was in store for this poor kid?
Both myself and the woman behind me opened our mouths to say something.
The little girl, though, circumvented us. Reaching out a chubby white arm, the little girl swung her arm back and nailed the woman right in the face.
The other woman, instead of getting angry at the little girl's retaliation, burst into a smile. "That's my girl!" she cooed. "You smack me back real good, dintcha'?"
Right. So in your household vandalism, thievery, and rewarding violence with violence is the way to go.
I shook my head.
It was all too late for that family.
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OK, as for the name voting- the poll thing-y seems to lock after you vote once, but I'm keeping all the stats and will combine them on Friday. This is a newly opened poll, but I did say that voting is open until Thursday and I'm determined that should be the case. You can vote once a day, and I'm feeling confused about the naming and am hoping for a lot of feedback here and the names are running close in terms of voting, so please vote!
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