That's right, in just a few hours Partner Unit and I head out to what could be a very long and difficult holiday. We fly from Stockholm and spend two days in New York City, then continue on for 7 days of ball-busting with my family in Dallas.
I would've asked some of my faves to get me those drinks that I am owed while I am out and about (ahem...Drew and my muppet Don) but seeing as I am with Partner Unit and he has no idea I blog, it's not a good idea. We'll be splitting up soon enough, I would guess, no need to lose my shirt in the settlement, too.
So what does this mean? It means Helen will be making sure she sees some sights in NYC on the 18-20th. Then I will be flying back to Dallas, to see my mother, grandmother, stepfather, and the sister that is currently not speaking to me. We shall all live under one roof (with the extended mother-in-law wing to accommodate my quite-ill grandmother), along with 5 dogs, 6 cats, several fish tanks and a cantankerous cockatiel that just won't die.
Good thing the house is huge. Otherwise we would likely wind up killing each other.
My plans? I get to see a Stars game, which excites me no end. I am going to Target to find my salvation. I plan on taking more photos of a cereal aisle. I will be seeing "Return of the King" and buying some new jeans and girlie scents at Bath and Body Works. I will be worshipping the goddess that is American TV. The rest of my time will be spent relaxing, trying not to fight with my family, trying not to seperate with Partner Unit while there, and trying not to lose my mind.
And above all, my mind will be busy trying not to see Kim in every nook and cranny in Dallas. Go away, Kim. It's time I lived my life without you now.
I just hate going back to Dallas. All those fucking ghosts.
So my blog will be quiet until Sunday, which is the first time I get Internet access. I promise-much updatage and much action will be happening in my life.
Since that is the only way I know how to live it.
-H.
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Hey! Take care. Being with family can be very stressful. I'm also on very cold terms with the sister right now, I know just how it is. Sigh! Have fun in the US and you know we all will be waiting with bated breath for your next post, don't you?
Posted by: melodrama at December 18, 2003 08:32 AM (qg00s)
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With all these obstacles, I know it may be tough, but try to enjoy your trip and have a Happy Holidays.
Posted by: James at December 18, 2003 09:34 AM (PbT+r)
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Well helen,im off to the Caneries for two weeks over xmas taking most of my fam with me ,,,
Good luck,ill be thinking about you whilst im sunning my self by the pool sipping my G'n'T.....
'NOT' ....happy christmas all.......
Paul uk xxx
Posted by: paul uk at December 18, 2003 10:04 AM (ospFw)
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The TV gods are pleased that you are returning to make proper obiesance. ;-)
Here's wishing you safe travels and mental fortitude of steel.
Posted by: Jim at December 18, 2003 10:30 AM (fkewd)
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Happy travels and thanks for the votes. "Do it for the children" - are there more I should know about?
Posted by: Simon at December 18, 2003 11:00 AM (UKqGy)
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It's a shame you're going to be in Dallas and I won't get to buy you a drink! Damn the Partner Unit!
But here's hoping your visit and the memories it dredges up is entirely joyful. Take care and be safe.
Posted by: ilyka at December 18, 2003 11:02 AM (ARy8O)
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Helen, i do hope it goes better than you predict it will. Though if it doesnt, think of all the lovely shopping and the Stars game!
Happy 6 month blogging anniversary. I havent been reading your blog long but already i am addicted, here is to another 6 months : )
Abs x
Posted by: abs at December 18, 2003 11:12 AM (lnpfn)
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Happy half-year anniversary!
Have some great, joyful Xmas holidays. Enjoy the movie, the shopping, the Stars, and even American TV, if you must, and try not to kill anyone while you're there. ;-)
Posted by: Gudy at December 18, 2003 12:58 PM (strje)
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Coming to the Big Apple eh? You could of course tell PU that your meeting to reps from company a and your recruiter set it up so you could meet up with (Don and I).
On a side note we went to a nice going away lunch at Tropica yesterday. If your on Park Ave while in the city ck it out (200 park ave). Here is the link. Ck out the menu button on it.
http://www.restaurantassociates.com/tropica/
Posted by: Drew at December 18, 2003 01:18 PM (K/rfM)
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Dang, that's two comments sections in a row where I've had to go look up a word Jim's used.
Have a great trip Helen and remember: TV will be extra special because for the first 15 minutes, all the commercials will be new!
Posted by: Gareth at December 18, 2003 01:24 PM (NHA9E)
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If it is such a "ball-busting" time - why go? If you and PU are close to splitting up, do you not feel that you are being false to everyone? Sounds like you are the one adding as much stress to the situation as anyone. You appear to be only concerned with one person. Funny on that.
Posted by: Sue at December 18, 2003 03:46 PM (D2g/j)
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I hope you have a great trip. We'll all miss you.
Posted by: Tiffani at December 18, 2003 03:56 PM (0i1dP)
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6 months and surpassing many of us in daily hits.. damn you...
Posted by: pylorns at December 18, 2003 04:05 PM (oMGhn)
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"Helen will be making sure she sees some sights in NYC on the 18-20th....has I am with Partner Unit and he has no idea I blog..."
..ok, so if I see you on the streets (most likely at Rockefeller Center Christmas Tree, right??) I will resist the urge to fall at your feet and thank you profusely for writing such an open and interesting blog!
Posted by: jim at December 18, 2003 04:14 PM (RCjGK)
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H,
Safe journey, Happy Holidays, and best of luck with the London interview thing!
Doesn't Texas still have drive-thru liquor stores? Road-pops all round!
It must be nice to have a home team that doesn't own the cellar in their division. Damn you Blackhawks!!!!
Posted by: Paul USA at December 18, 2003 04:57 PM (bWfDG)
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have a great and safe trip to the states! i hope it's fun in a not too overwhelming and crazy sort of way. do some shoe shopping for me! xoxoxox
Posted by: kat at December 18, 2003 05:00 PM (qEQy+)
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Have a safe trip and a merry Christmas (as merry as possible, anyway). I look forward, as always, to your next post.
Godspeed.
Posted by: Joey at December 18, 2003 05:30 PM (Jq6q/)
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H-
Have a safe, wonderful trip, and Happy Holidays to you. Oh, and happy six month blogging anniversary! Take care.
Posted by: Sue at December 18, 2003 05:40 PM (bKaWw)
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Paul: I think some places in Texas may have drive through liquor stores. But if you really want that, go to Louisiana, drive through daqueri, liquor... and liquor is sold in grocery stores...
Posted by: pylorns at December 18, 2003 05:49 PM (oMGhn)
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Happy Blogaversary! Like someone commented earlier, Godspeed, and da nex thin ya know...Bob's yer Uncle
Posted by: Kyle at December 18, 2003 06:25 PM (blNMI)
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The city is fantastic. I know, I'm in it. So enjoy your time. I'm sorry we couldn't meet for a drink; but your reason is a sound one. Better off keeping mum.
Have a safe trip.
Posted by: Jiminy at December 18, 2003 07:23 PM (bhLQn)
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~Target~ I think they keep salvation, or something very much like it, hanging 'round the endcaps of the cosmetics and/or pretty-smellies aisles.
Well, there, or find the Droste darke chocolate & raspberry "whack-it orange" -- yeah!!
And I hereby decree that all shall get along in true holiday spirit! ('Course, if you wanna help keep the Spirit flowing, I'm sure that couldn't hurt. Who can be grumpy when rhey've been sipping Courvoisier all day!)
Posted by: jean at December 18, 2003 07:29 PM (Af9+w)
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H,
Happy Holidays!
I hope you can keep the peace with the family and the partner unit until you make it back. If you ever find yourself in New Orleans give me a call and I will try and round up the local bloggers and we can all hit the town like we did for the wetwired.org guys & gals!
Later and take care...
Posted by: Wired Nerve at December 18, 2003 08:26 PM (hL8Mp)
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I'm crushed that your trip doesn't include a chance for our foursome. >>Sigh<<. But Target *does* sell happiness; in my case it's in the DVD section and wherever Astroglide is housed.
Happy Holidays, darling. Hope they go better than expected. I'll be sending you good wishes.
Posted by: Kaetchen at December 18, 2003 08:38 PM (WZyYB)
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Helen,
Merry Christmas from the far side of the world - down here in NZ its warm and sunny for Xmas.
Will be thinking of you over the holiday, try not to let the past overwhelm you, I've been there and its not a good place
Stephen
Posted by: Stephen at December 18, 2003 08:53 PM (w/U8f)
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Holy cow! We'll be int he same city...at the same time!
Ohhhh fantasy world here I come!
Posted by: Rob at December 19, 2003 02:32 AM (ouF8E)
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I hope you dont mind Helen, but i have linked to you *blushes*
Abs x
Posted by: Abs at December 19, 2003 10:58 AM (lnpfn)
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hope your trip is great and safe!
Posted by: melanie at December 19, 2003 12:27 PM (jDC3U)
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Curses! You'll be a mere 4 hours from me and I don't get to see you....
::sobs hysterically::
Oh well, I understand. They always, inevitabaly ask, "So how did you two meet?" and then you have to start tap dancing...and it sounds like your "vacation" will have enough biting of the tongue as it is.
Enjoy t.v. and Target and for the G-d's sake girl, buy yourself some Cap'n Crunch and eat the entire box by yourself!
Have fun!
Posted by: Serenity at December 20, 2003 05:21 AM (k9RaT)
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