My project has been nominated for the highest award in Dream Job. This is a very cool thing and I hope we win, but because of this I have to attend a black tie dinner event Wednesday night at the Natural History Museum in London with the landed gentry and a chap that was knighted by the Queen not so long ago. For this, I had to buy a dress (the last two black tie events I went to I wore my blue hemp dress. I still love that dress to bits, only I really felt it was time for a new black tie dress to enter the competition).
I am not a posh girl, I'm not good at black tie. And since I'm a bit anti-establishment, I didn't buy black for the black tie (instead I bought two things, as I couldn't make my mind up in the shop and they were both on sale).
I have bought two items after much fraught debating and deciding. The dress I liked the mostest was unavailable in my size, and unfortunately the dress in my size had a snag in the delicate fabric. Since this event is two days away (meaning I have a meeting in London in the morning, then the Weakest Link audition where I will change into the black tie event after the audition, then this do) I unfortunately have no time to go hunting for the dress I liked the mostest (and that's the last time I will opt for poor grammar. From now on, it's totally unintentional).
So I need your help, and as such I will leave this post up tomorrow as well to see if I can find an answer.
I have option A and option B, and I need to know which one to wear. Please pretend that I am wearing, for example, jewelry, high heels, make-up other than lip gloss, that my hair is done up nicely and my arms covered by a nice scarf. Oh, and that I'm wearing a bra and scary pants, since holding things in is a must. Pretend I am wearing those.
Please let me know which one is better, option A (a jade-colored Grecian low-backed number. It is a very bright jade color, which doesn't show on the pictures as it needed the flash to show up, and I am so winter white that should I post it on the web an ambulance would turn up to cart me off for blood transfusions) or option B (a black ruched chiffon sparkly strapped top and an iridescent pale green skirt).
I've got 24 hours to narrow it down. I could use the help, Angus and I both have a favorite. Which would you wear if you were going to a massive black tie awards dinner with a knighted chap in one of London's finest museums (and please don't answer "I wouldn't wear those, I'd wear Prada", as...you know...I'm not posh)?
Thanks for this.
-H (aka the Trinny and Susannah hater, but someone that can't pick out her own clothes anyway).
UPDATED-I was trying them both on and deliberating when Angus told me to come outside, that the sunlight would show the real colors of everything. So I threw a bra on, put on a scarf and jewelry, and gave it a try (the hair appointment is tomorrow morning as this hairstyle here? The ponytail? This is the limit of my abilities, and since I have a big round Asian face I try to avoid the ponytail at all costs.)
Final shots of Dress A and B. Personally, I think I've made a choice, I'm just interested in the panel of experts here for their weigh-in. I'm sorry for being a pain and your comments are fantastic. To be honest, I'm most comfortable in my pajamas. I'm feeling really, really insecure about dressing up tomorrow. I don't do black tie. I do cheeky monkey pajama bottoms and toe socks.
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I'd go for option A... but what do I know, I'm a guy! ;-)
Posted by: Paolo at January 30, 2006 06:01 PM (XBRVY)
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I too would go for A. You look great!
Posted by: Dave T. at January 30, 2006 06:03 PM (hkvGr)
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Option A. I think it looks smashing on you. Option B would be my type of dress that I would go running to on the rack, but I have to say Option A is very flattering on you. :-)
Posted by: judi at January 30, 2006 06:03 PM (g6iq8)
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Hmmm. I'm liking B. It's more "black tie" material and I love the drama of sparkles. Runching also does lovely things for your bustline.
Posted by: T at January 30, 2006 06:09 PM (gjzrb)
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Most certainly "A."
For some reason option B irks me.
A is classier.
Posted by: Paul at January 30, 2006 06:15 PM (vbP6L)
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Option A. V. glam. Stunning.
Posted by: Zuly at January 30, 2006 06:17 PM (6Vf6y)
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OPTION B!
It looks a bit classier to me. And I think it's more flattering. Option A just doesn't do it for me...at all.
Hope that helps.
Posted by: Sarah at January 30, 2006 06:17 PM (Tq7mk)
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Watch it on the Trinny and Susannah hating love...
And I, who should not be allowed to dress herself either... nominate you for option 2. You can email if you want a reason
Or email Best Friend... he'll tell it to you straight
oh yes.. and an ever so LOUD HUZZAH for the nomination. Congrats my dear- you deserve it!!
Posted by: stinkerbell at January 30, 2006 06:18 PM (QcMkT)
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Though they are both lovely, I prefer option B. I can't tell if it is the dress or you, but in option B you look like you are both ready to tackle whatever comes and still tell people to shove off. Option A looks a bit more like you are seeking the approval of others. I know, it is a silly way of looking at it. But I think the attitude expressed is as important as the fabric in use.
Posted by: KG at January 30, 2006 06:21 PM (z+qpj)
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My first reaction was "B", and I usually go with my first reaction. Thing is my wife says I dress like a homeless guy sometimes, so can my oppinion be trusted?
Asked my wife and she sayd "A" on the spot. Something about being less conventional, or something.
I´m not helping, am I?
Posted by: Miguel at January 30, 2006 06:27 PM (1VWjY)
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B. I like B. You look lovely.
Posted by: RP at January 30, 2006 06:51 PM (LlPKh)
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B - although it's not the type of dress I normally like, it looks gorgeous on you. Knock 'em dead!
Posted by: Just another Jen at January 30, 2006 07:00 PM (aGoEv)
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A, A, A! B is . . . don't hit me, but B's a little senior prom-y.
And you are plenty thin. ENOUGH with that, okay? You look gorgeous either way.
Posted by: ilyka at January 30, 2006 07:06 PM (uPCkO)
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Option A is beautiful, slimming, and sexy (without being sleazy!). Has a higher Wow factor than B.
Congratulations on the award and have a great time.
Posted by: Laura at January 30, 2006 07:07 PM (zh/oU)
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I love them both but I am more drawn to A. You skinny and beautiful silly BTW
Posted by: Cheryl at January 30, 2006 07:08 PM (/kuVz)
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Hmmmm... I adore them both. You have great taste. I think A is a bit more appropriate for the event though. Just my opinion. You'll be gorgeous no matter what!
Posted by: donna at January 30, 2006 07:12 PM (OMzXo)
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A makes me a slackjawed drooling idiot (in a good way). Does that count as a recommendation?
:-D
Posted by: tommy at January 30, 2006 07:13 PM (EhwJT)
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Oo, I love A, but I love B more. I love the bottom skirt of the jade dress, actually, I like the style apart from the halter neck, but I have a Peeve about halter necks, so you can discount that.
I adore B, love the colors, love the spaghetti straps...
Okay, jade dress makes you look taller, but the black top makes you look thinner in the waist.
Yeah, I know, I'm no help at all. They both look good on you!!
Posted by: Orodemniades at January 30, 2006 07:19 PM (Bd74n)
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I like A a lot. It is very flattering and color is always good (everyone wears black, black gets really boring). You look really great in the dress. I definately vote for A. B is nice, but not quite as flattering on you.
Posted by: Katie at January 30, 2006 07:48 PM (gDkSs)
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You look great in both dresses.
Posted by: BW at January 30, 2006 07:50 PM (CFDUO)
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Wow - they are both awesome and you thin in both. I like the first a lot. The cut really suits you! But the second is just as beautiful. No matter what you decide, have a great time!!
Posted by: Kris at January 30, 2006 07:57 PM (3ODIP)
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B is dressier (and I rock at black tie affairs).
Both look nice on you, both are good colors, both are appropriate. But I like B better.
Posted by: trouble at January 30, 2006 08:00 PM (j2vfb)
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I second Ilyka's view. Option A is more sophisticated and you look beautiful in it.
Posted by: Lori at January 30, 2006 08:10 PM (lHNms)
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A: looks sophisticated and sleek and says CONFIDENCE. have a great time, and well done.
Posted by: anna at January 30, 2006 08:18 PM (yqelu)
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You look lovely in both. My personal preference would be for B, as that is 1) the one I would wear, no choice, and 2) kinda shiny.
A is a good color for you, though, for sure.
Posted by: caltechgirl at January 30, 2006 08:31 PM (uI/79)
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I vote for 'B'- I think you look elegant and sophisticated in it. And you do realize that you're probably going to wind up with a fairly even split here and no further ahead, don't you?
Posted by: Jocelyn at January 30, 2006 08:34 PM (jkRb/)
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DEFINATELY B - it is more modern, and more formal, and I think it flatters you. Also, it gives you more options for accessories - wouldn't it look fabulous with your hair up and something large and sparkly in your hair? And you cannot go wrong with a shiny skirt!
Posted by: stephanie at January 30, 2006 08:37 PM (AcXbh)
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They're both pretty, but I think gown A is fantastic! It's very classic, old-school glamour... classy and timeless. You look great... ooh-la-la!
Posted by: Liv at January 30, 2006 08:42 PM (AbDXn)
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I like them both and you look great! You can't lose! Personally I would pick the one I feel most comfortable in.
Posted by: Amanda at January 30, 2006 09:09 PM (838ff)
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I am the most undedicated follower of fashion that I know. To me, comfort is everything and my choices are usually between a pair of Levis and tshirt, or sweats (shorts in warm weather). I believe you should wear whatever's most comfortable to you, they both look fine.
But since you may consider that a cop-out and whack me upside the head for not offering a more specific opinion, then I nominate Option A. If there was any bloat to show (and I sure can't see it, not from these pictures), Option A would hide it best.
And personally, I'd much rather find a little bloat to put my arms around than a lot of bone. I like my women with some physical substance.
Posted by: diamond dave at January 30, 2006 09:24 PM (m/Lj/)
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I vote for whichever makes you want to dance and twirl your skirt - and is still comfortable but also makes you feel kickass and strong and beautiful. They both look fantastic on you. It looks like you're a bit more comfortable in B but perhaps that's just the pictures.
Posted by: martha at January 30, 2006 09:34 PM (M7fGT)
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I'm going to choose A, althought both look great. There's just something about the color and the skirt on A that I'm drawn to. Very Marilyn..but not completely. I don't think A will need a lot of frou frou with it, though. I definitely think it's "you."
The silver skirt looks like it might wrinkle pretty badly while you're wearing it and that is something that I notice on other people. For some reason, I get all hung up on it. I can't stand seeing butt wrinkles from where people have been sitting down.
Also, you have to imagine which dress would be easier to shag in, because Angus is NOT going to be able to resist you, after seeing you in either of them. I highly recommend you remove the painful gut flattening scary pants BEFORE the shag begins. Unless Angus is into that. : )
Posted by: Lindsay at January 30, 2006 10:31 PM (Wm4GU)
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Go for the Green (A)!!!!
Posted by: Juls at January 30, 2006 10:42 PM (9aRbg)
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In the first place, I just started watching Trinny and Susan here and I like them way better than their US counterparts (Stacey and Clinton who I like but not as much). I'm a fan and I want them to come and dress me.
Secondly, I like you in dress B best, but it might be your attitude. You look beautiful and confident in that one. Dress A is lovely, but it's not my first choice.
I would wear B.
Thirdly, congratulations on the nomination!! I hope you win.
Posted by: Ms. Q at January 30, 2006 10:44 PM (WUM14)
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I love B! But it's also VERY similar to what I wore to MY last black tie event - so maybe I'm biased!!
Posted by: Flikka at January 30, 2006 10:55 PM (puvdD)
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.. A....
definitely.....
Posted by: Eric at January 30, 2006 11:21 PM (r5XsL)
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I'm voting for B.. While I think A is lovely, I can't help but love the shiny.
Good luck deciding! Makes me glad I don't actually get to do anything formal very often.. (read: ever) because I'd never be able to pick a dress!
Posted by: Erin at January 30, 2006 11:40 PM (QqbWe)
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Wow, congrats on the nomination! First off you look great in both! A is my favorite though.
Posted by: Lee at January 30, 2006 11:42 PM (PYZOC)
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I love, love, love the color of A (muted in these photos, though it may be), but I like the two-toned style of B. They're both lovely....now I see why you're in such a quandry! I agree with previous comments that you should wear whatever makes you feel like you kick ass -- self confidence makes the woman.
Posted by: kitty at January 30, 2006 11:47 PM (NUDRd)
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Option A ... B, whilst lovely, makes you look like an allsort on camera and when you win you should bear these things in mind :-D
Posted by: Rob at January 30, 2006 11:59 PM (wZqoJ)
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Congrats, congrats, congrats! Don't like the accordian pleats on A. B is nice. Both need some support, as in help from a bra : ) If you had an all black dress, that would be even more classic!
Posted by: Annette at January 31, 2006 12:07 AM (h/BkP)
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b is the one chicky!
Posted by: HEATHER at January 31, 2006 12:34 AM (8j71D)
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I like them both Helen, but if I must choose, I choose B. The shimmer of the skirt seems a bit more black tie than A, though A does look quite lovely!
Good luck choosing, and congratulations!!
Posted by: Amanda at January 31, 2006 01:08 AM (IkWgY)
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You know I wouldn't steer you wrong with b babe. It may be senior promish, but that's all black ties really are. One word about a. thick arms. b? no thick arms.
Sisters don't lie.
Posted by: statia at January 31, 2006 01:12 AM (56gUM)
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B - looks more formal.
Congrats on the dinner and nomination.
Posted by: Karen at January 31, 2006 01:19 AM (wZLWV)
Posted by: Julia at January 31, 2006 01:19 AM (xJGfx)
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definitely B! i think A would be lovely for an afternoon elegant wedding or dinner... but for evening black tie,
B is the way to go. it just has that extra little bit of glam
and shimmer that says 'posh evening party'... and would look fab with your hair up. congrats, and good luck!
Posted by: hdd at January 31, 2006 01:23 AM (IU7wl)
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A. A. A. Why? The color is amazing and amazing on you; reflects your beautiful, glowing skin; this choice also reflect the creativity which you obviously bring to your job, having gotten nominated in the first place (never mind all your OTHER accomplishments); and finally, shallow girl that I am--will show off your amazing yoga back.
B is really nice, but I think it looks more like the kind of outfit a million other girls wear to formal events--A looks more like YOU.
Posted by: Deborah at January 31, 2006 01:31 AM (xajuL)
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Um, B. I think it is more slimming, by breaking up the vertical.
Posted by: Chris Hansen at January 31, 2006 01:39 AM (lkZ9E)
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A! Looks more sophisticated IMHO. Love the color. All in all, if you're like me, you'll decide in the shower right before leaving! Either way, have fun and enjoy the event. Just remember that everyone will be going through the same clothing dilemna themselves.
Posted by: jydkaly at January 31, 2006 01:49 AM (ngiPJ)
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.. A.... most definitely.....
Posted by: Mia at January 31, 2006 01:49 AM (aPP6S)
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I like "A" For me, pale skin and bold color clothes look good together.
Posted by: Paul at January 31, 2006 01:52 AM (wypb3)
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Either one will be nice, but I really prefer option B. I love the color of the skirt and the cut of the top seems more posh and formal to me.
Congratulations on the nomination - I HOPE you WIN!
Posted by: kenju at January 31, 2006 02:02 AM (2+7OT)
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Oh, dear Lord. You are a fucking goddess, cut it out! And that's coming from a gal who used to be quite a babe.
Both are stunning, dear, but I strongly suggest option B. You look absolutely terrific in it, and it looks like it was made for you.
CONGRATULATIONS!
Posted by: liv at January 31, 2006 02:11 AM (gMPYf)
Posted by: Beth at January 31, 2006 02:53 AM (rj2mi)
Posted by: Priya at January 31, 2006 03:01 AM (120Jx)
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I like B, but WonderfulBoyfriend likes A...lol...either way, you're a winner!!!
Posted by: mitzi at January 31, 2006 03:11 AM (Vp6CN)
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Really interesting to see the totally opposite viewpoints on the same dresses!
FWIW, my instantaneous choice was A. The V of the neckline is
so much more flattering, especially with your height and elegant neck, and would be even more dramatic with an updo.
I'm gonna seriously get my ass shot off here, but B looks almost matronly to me (the dress, not the model!).
B is 'nice'.
A is 'take no prisoners'.
This is almost as painful as trying to help models pick wardrobe for fashion shoots - painful! It'll be interesting to hear how your and Angus's preferences play out.
More kudos on the nomination.
Paul
Posted by: Light & Dark at January 31, 2006 03:15 AM (M9GWX)
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I like them both, but if I had to pick one...B it would be.
Posted by: Donna at January 31, 2006 04:06 AM (2r5TM)
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My DH says A. Definitely.
And I just realized that A is the color of the bridesmaid dresses at my wedding. Good thing you don't have to dye shoes to match, that was a nightmare....
Posted by: caltechgirl at January 31, 2006 04:12 AM (uI/79)
Posted by: Simon at January 31, 2006 04:51 AM (FUPxT)
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I think A and my husband says B so we cancel each other out and are no help at all!
Also, not that it's on topic, but I just found you last week, and I love your blog
I know that doesn't help with the dress decision, but I figured props on your openness and your writing can't hurt either!
Posted by: Jess at January 31, 2006 05:25 AM (9QE/c)
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You look really pretty in both ensembles. I think I lean a bit more towards B - but that's probably about my own unmet want of a long shimmery taffeta skirt to call my own. In any case, the good news is you can't go wrong with either one. And how KICK ASS that you're receiving some well-deserved recognition!
Posted by: gigi at January 31, 2006 06:01 AM (/sQW/)
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Congrats on the Nomination!
My vote goes for dress A!
Posted by: Dawn at January 31, 2006 06:08 AM (y6n8O)
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well..Paul is right, except that he has it
ABSOLUTELY BACKWARDS.
B is definitely the sexier and more 'evening elegant' of the two.
still, they're both great and either dress will be fab as long as you feel comfortable and confident in it.. so you can't
go wrong either way.
plus, also remember that in gowns like these it's a bonus to be tall and long legged..so you already have the advantage. just add a sexy pair of heels, put your hair up, and you're golden no matter which dress you choose!
Posted by: river at January 31, 2006 07:55 AM (IU7wl)
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Argh!
It's still so close!
Dress A has 34 votes, dress B has 32 votes, and "both" has 7 votes.
Weirdly, I dreamt last night I did wear both, maybe I am channelling the Olsen twins or something.
I'm still looking for input. The hair will almost definitely be up for this event, the jewelry I have, the black strappy heels I have, the scarf over the arms I have.
It's the dress I can't decide on!
(and for the record? Angus likes dress B for exactly the reasons Lindsay listed-he imagines lifting the thick fabric and having a go at me from behind. He even made me take pictures to this effect which, obviously, are not on the page. Me? I liked dress A most but have been flip-flopping on that all night. Currently, my choice is Montana. I choose Montana, since I seem unable to pick a dress.)
Posted by: Helen at January 31, 2006 08:27 AM (h4faM)
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Maybe I'm a bit late with this...but I'd go for B, unless it creases when you sit down, then I'd go for A. Not much help eh?!
Posted by: Gill at January 31, 2006 09:26 AM (4tDGB)
Posted by: Z. Hendirez at January 31, 2006 09:44 AM (qkHVe)
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Both are gorgeous, as, frankly, are you.
When you walked towards our hotel a few months ago, I remember thinking "Shit, she's more beautiful in person than she is in pictures..."
I have an equisitely put-together girlfriend who gave me this advice years ago: wear what makes you feel wonderful.
So, is tehre one, a little more than the other, that you feel more lovely in?
Or, you know, is promised not to wrinkle?
Congratulations on the nomination, Helen. No one deserves it more. Fingers crossed
Posted by: Elizabeth at January 31, 2006 10:02 AM (ceeh7)
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B
abs x
Posted by: abs at January 31, 2006 11:03 AM (7/LHf)
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pros of A: looks like a longer version of a M. Monroe dress (could be a pro for some, is it for you?), probably fewer people would wear it because it's rather different from standard fare.
pros of B: more like standard fare.
Honestly, which one makes you feel the best?
I was going to say A first, but I think B might be a better choice for this event. Save option A for a really hot evening festival! YOu look fab in both, and congratulations for the nomination! Best of luck to you, always.
Posted by: Mandalei at January 31, 2006 11:41 AM (CaRJT)
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FWIW, I like B best and it seems more suited for the occasion. However, A is lovely and should you decide not to wear it to this event, will be lovely for something else.
Oh, and while I'm going on - look how long your hair is these days! Gorgeous, you are!
Posted by: Heather at January 31, 2006 11:55 AM (cOBSo)
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I think they are both gorgeous on you, but I think option B would be the best option for the event. Congrats on the nomination; heaven knows you certainly worked hard for it!
Posted by: tracey at January 31, 2006 12:03 PM (px9kb)
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OK I have to go with A. But it is hard to see any detailing that might be there with such a dark pic. It looks more mature? B looks a little more prom-y, to me anyway!
Posted by: justme at January 31, 2006 12:07 PM (I0ENd)
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I am delurking to let you know that I love the option B - looks very "black tieish!" (is that a word!) Congrats and good luck with both events!
Posted by: sandi at January 31, 2006 01:27 PM (IvecJ)
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I am totally in love with B....the color of the skirt is stunning, and the top emphasizes your bust with out putting them out to say HELLO!
Posted by: jennifer at January 31, 2006 01:55 PM (F8TUc)
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Western NC votes for option A, with the shawl from "B". How great to have two "can't lose" dresses!
Posted by: lambchop at January 31, 2006 01:57 PM (0bhhP)
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A for me. The cut & colour are so beautiful on you. Have fun!
Posted by: Tracy at January 31, 2006 02:03 PM (Yj2qM)
Posted by: A. reader at January 31, 2006 02:05 PM (7ivMb)
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Sticking with B! (But A is very nice as well)
Posted by: Gill at January 31, 2006 02:10 PM (4tDGB)
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Option A because the skirt will float out around your legs as you walk and make you feel gorgeous!! Also, in case you eat anything there, the waistline on the dress looks to be a little more forgiving than that on the skirt.
That said - both look AMAZING - you look beautiful (and so does the garden).
Good luck on the night!
Posted by: Felicity at January 31, 2006 02:24 PM (orZEM)
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i think "A" is more suiting for the event, but with a different colored wrap.
"B" is beautiful for a night out, but I don't think it's right for a black tie event. I think someone else said the wrap on B would go good with A. I'd have to see them together, but they may be right.
Posted by: becky at January 31, 2006 02:24 PM (jv5jW)
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I really love option B b/c of the shiny bottom, so I'm voting for that one.
Posted by: girl at January 31, 2006 02:27 PM (NDI2V)
Posted by: Donna at January 31, 2006 03:17 PM (2r5TM)
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Okay, I'm totally voting again. But it's another day, so I get to.
A - Seriously, A is the perfect dress for you. It's not a style that everyone could pull off but your height makes it look incredible. I wish I could wear a dress like that. I'm only 5'3, so I'd just look like a dumpy lampshade. You look great in the jewel tones, by the way. And don't you know that pony tails are in? Don't you watch E! Entertainment Television?
p.s. Today is my birthday and I'm claiming the right for my vote to count as ten.
Posted by: Lindsay at January 31, 2006 03:28 PM (B5UQ6)
Posted by: iowaslovak at January 31, 2006 03:48 PM (U3sRl)
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I like option A better. But not with that wrap.
Maybe it's the lighting, I'm not sure. But the wrap looks like it clashes.
Posted by: Ms. Pants at January 31, 2006 03:49 PM (19wVo)
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Upon further looking, I'm nearly positive that I wore B's skirt in a wedding a few years ago. Still have it. Great skirt, but it's a bridesmaid skirt to me. And while I think the top has potential, I think it comes up way too high on your chest. It smunches your baps down in a not-flattering way. You've got a great rack. It's worthy of option A. Option B does not do it any favours.
Posted by: Ms. Pants (again) at January 31, 2006 03:51 PM (19wVo)
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I'm with Ms. Pants on this. The colour on option A is more flattering to your skin, and the lines on A are just all around more slimming and elegant to me.
Posted by: amy t. at January 31, 2006 03:53 PM (zPssd)
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Darnit! You gotta pick, hon - because now I like them both!
Posted by: liv at January 31, 2006 03:54 PM (gMPYf)
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A-its you baby! Gorgeous! Now give us a turn, flip of the hair-work it!
Seriously, I love the way option A highlights your beautiful coloring and dark hair, plus it is a flattering in every way possible. You will look smashing!
Posted by: Teresa at January 31, 2006 04:01 PM (zf0DB)
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You look gorgeous in both, but A is personally speaking to me. I have a thing for green, especially the jade shade, and it has a lovely neckline. Although I do have to say that I'm lusting for the wrap in option B.
Either way, you'll be adorabale. Good luck in the award!
Posted by: Dasha at January 31, 2006 04:18 PM (iwajf)
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A suits your personality better.
B suits "black tie" better, but you seem to be a little more comfortable in this dress.
I like both...but you need to pick what you feel most beautiful and comfortable in. I don't know if the sandles were intentional or not, but I would switch those out for some nice flats or short heels.
Posted by: Dana at January 31, 2006 04:28 PM (b7OKi)
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Voting for B again, A is pretty but looks too mother-of-the-bride. And I still think B is more black-tie...
Posted by: stephanie at January 31, 2006 04:36 PM (26B/l)
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A! I love love love it! A is more sophisticated, more fabulous. It's a cut that one would see at a black tie, but in a striking colour that will set you apart.
Also, if you're self-concious about being pale, i don't think a black square top will help with that very much. the v neck and the colour of A will compliment your skin tone more than B.
it's a beautiful dress....in fact, i want one now!
Posted by: Lizze at January 31, 2006 04:41 PM (s1Gv7)
Posted by: Z. Hendirez at January 31, 2006 04:59 PM (wvfKW)
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A: definately, the neckline works so much better on it than the straight line that B gives you.
Posted by: Jayne at January 31, 2006 05:01 PM (q5uvl)
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with the scarf I like option A best - though it does need a different color scarf.
Posted by: martha at January 31, 2006 05:26 PM (M7fGT)
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A! You look gorgeous in it!
Posted by: Ornery at January 31, 2006 05:46 PM (2KXgQ)
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B. Love the colors and cut.
Posted by: Brad at January 31, 2006 06:16 PM (zW21J)
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Both are great. However, A seems to be the ONE the fits Helen best. You just look more comfortable.
Now in semi-rural southern bible belt USA where I live B would be most proper. But since you aren't in Texas anymore you are free to be yourself.
Posted by: Foggy at January 31, 2006 06:19 PM (Ah2V/)
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either way Helen- You WILL be smashing and you will do Black Tie perfectly fine
bises!
Posted by: stinkerbell at January 31, 2006 06:22 PM (QcMkT)
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Option A would be the one that I'd choose. It seems to fit you better, both in style and shape.
Yes, I'm late to the party... but I hope this helps.
Posted by: amber at January 31, 2006 06:22 PM (VZEhb)
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I am voting again. Still "A" Lose the scarf and just wear the dress. You do not need to cover yourself up. Have the confidence to show off
who you are, or at least your arms and shoulders.
Posted by: Paul at January 31, 2006 06:54 PM (wypb3)
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My 2nd vote but still going with A.
Do you have a black scarf too? I have a black scarf which is my "go to" for formal events. Both scarves above are perfect regardless, was just wondering how that would look with A or B. Oh god sorry never mind - didn't mean to throw in another variable to decide on. I know how it is - it takes me ages! lol
Posted by: Lee at January 31, 2006 06:59 PM (PYZOC)
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I know I'm late...but I prefer dress A. But seriously, I don't think you can go wrong wearing either...thanks for asking!
Posted by: Marie at January 31, 2006 07:06 PM (PQxWr)
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I'm changing my vote. Go with A.
And I agree with Paul, you don't need a scarf, your back and shoulders are lovely and you should show them off.
Posted by: Heather at January 31, 2006 07:22 PM (cOBSo)
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I still say A
Posted by: Juls at January 31, 2006 07:25 PM (SDeyC)
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Still a fan of B, but in the light, A is definitely the color of the bridesmaid dresses at my wedding.
Either would be lovely, and you definitely don't need the wrap except for the weather, as your back and shoulders look lovely in either dress.
Posted by: caltechgirl at January 31, 2006 08:09 PM (/vgMZ)
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B seems better suited for the occasion. Both are beautiful and you are beautiful in them, but for a black tie dinner, I say B is more suitable.
And CONGRATS HELEN! :-)
Posted by: Amber at January 31, 2006 08:11 PM (zQE5D)
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Still love both dresses, but I think for me the jade is just a wee bit intense. Which isn't to say you don't look fabulous in both...I'm just loving that paler greeny-blue more. Hee!
Posted by: Orodemniades at January 31, 2006 08:36 PM (Bd74n)
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It's gotta be B for me. A is beautiful but B has that "go me and my fabulous body" feel to it!
Either way, you look stunning! Good luck on Wednesday!
AxXx
Posted by: Lemurgirl at January 31, 2006 08:48 PM (YcruH)
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it is a hard decision but dress option B looks best. A bit more classy than the other dress. Have a nice time at the event.
Posted by: BW at January 31, 2006 09:02 PM (CFDUO)
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Y'all are high. B gives her mega Drewbs.
Posted by: Ms. Pants at January 31, 2006 09:50 PM (19wVo)
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I would go with A. I like them both. I think I like A because I can see your body better in the picture.
I think they are both great.
Posted by: Sara at January 31, 2006 10:08 PM (H5++6)
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I like A. It looks classy & polished and I like the the way the bottom flows.
Really, though, you should go with the one you FEEL better in, if that helps at all. You have to feel as comfortable as you can without the monkey sox, hee hee.
I sound like I'm a judge on "Project Runway." Do you have that there? Don't forget, I'm still a pig American, hee hee.
Good luck and rock on!
Posted by: missk at January 31, 2006 11:04 PM (EM7ls)
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B. Though beautiful in both, you positively glow in B.
Posted by: pam at January 31, 2006 11:47 PM (l6NIn)
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Sticking with B. I agree with the bridesmaid comments regarding A.
Posted by: Beth at February 01, 2006 12:08 AM (rj2mi)
Posted by: Rebel at February 01, 2006 12:12 AM (Hd/0P)
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First of all - congrats!!! Second...I like B better. It seems you got a good mix of A's and B's. I don't really think you can go wrong either way.
Posted by: B at February 01, 2006 01:04 AM (EolI8)
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The colour on option A is more flattering to your skin tone in my opinion, and I love the style.
So, still A.
I can just imagine you 10 mins before you leave still not chosen!!!
Has any of this helped? Other than knowing that you look stunning in both of them ~grin~
Posted by: Mia at February 01, 2006 04:00 AM (aPP6S)
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I vote for Option A as I find the V neck more attractive on you and agree that the jade green suits your winter skin ;-)
Best of luck at the Awards and I hope you are the winner!
All the way from Queensland, Australia..Karenx
Posted by: Karen (Australia) at February 01, 2006 04:24 AM (Avvbo)
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I love the green dress (option A)...Quite pretty, stylish and very stylish (good choice). Little jewelery would be needed... perhaps a nice pair of dangling earings... and a head full of curls (not poodle-esque, but large curls, with volume)(gorgeous, absolutely gorgeous)... I think that would be quite smashing... Option B is also quite nice, and you do seem to be comfortable. I agree they're both winners, but I secretly prefer option A...Just an opinion from a Crazy Canadian
Posted by: anais at February 01, 2006 04:57 AM (a+k1l)
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Ok, here is the deciding vote
A
go with it....
you look great in both...but go with the A
good luck.
Posted by: J.M at February 01, 2006 05:46 AM (9a59H)
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Sticking with my 1st choice....A!
Posted by: Dawn at February 01, 2006 05:51 AM (y6n8O)
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I'm abandoning my B vote in favor of the A. Smashing.
Posted by: gigi at February 01, 2006 05:59 AM (Je4Xn)
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A. Definitely. No doubt about it.
ps. Love, love, love your blog. Have linked to mine - hope you don't mind
Posted by: Mary-Jo at February 01, 2006 08:17 AM (DKTIr)
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Still B
B
B
B
B
Abs x
Posted by: abs at February 01, 2006 09:07 AM (7/LHf)
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Oh you just had to show more pics! OK um, I guess I am staying with A. You seem to look more comfortable in it in your photos. To me anyway. Sorry Angus!
Posted by: justme at February 01, 2006 11:43 AM (I0ENd)
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Option A, no scarf.
OR
B with scarf. Depends on if you need the scarf or not. If you don't, do A.
You'll look Heavenly no matter what!
Posted by: Serena at February 01, 2006 02:04 PM (ToHm9)
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